The Unconscious World of Dream
In a woman's dream, rape may represent either (unconscious) fears of sex or (masochistic) fantasies of being raped.
A man's dream od commiting a rape would probably be a straightforward symbol of sexual desire, but of a sadistic kind. You probably need to become acquainted with your feminine quailties (see anima/animus CLICK HERE) - and let them play a larger part in your life. What are you trying to take vengeance for (doesn't necessarily have to do with sex)? Did your mother seem to withdraw her love from you as a boy?
Consider these possibilities also:
You are losing energy, allowing someone else's negative influence to take your power and self-esteem.
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